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09/11/08 - NNHS Newsletter - John O'Hara
John
Joseph O'Hara
(13 Dec 1946 - 6 Sept 2008)
Ferguson High School Class of
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Dear
Friends and Schoolmates,
I am sorry to report
this evening of another passing.
John O'Hara, Ferguson High School, Class of 1965,
died Saturday, September 6, 2008 in Norfolk at the age of 71.

From Jay Gunter (Ferguson HS - '66) of VA - 09/11/08 - "Sad News":
Carol -
I should have sent
this earlier in the week. A friend of mine from Ferguson High has passed away
whom I had not seen in some time,
John O'Hara, FHS '65.
This is from
Monday's Daily Press.
Jay Gunter
FHS "66
I'm so sorry I missed this,
Jay. Thank you for letting me know, and please accept my deepest
condolences on the loss of your friend.


From the Daily Press - 09/08/08:
John Joseph O'Hara
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NORFOLK - John Joseph O'Hara, 61, of the 1500 block of Morris Avenue, died
Sept. 6, 2008, in a local hospital.
He was a native of Newport News, the son of the late Joseph and Virginia
Cooke O'Hara, and a resident of Norfolk since 1965.
He was preceded in death by his brother, Todd Fitzgerald O'Hara.
John graduated from Ferguson High School in Newport News in 1965. He
received a B.A. in History in 1969 and an M.A. in Educational Administration
in 1972 from Old Dominion University. He served as ODU's basketball team
manager throughout college, and assisted at ODU's athletic events until his
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John began his teaching career at Norfolk Catholic High School in 1972,
where he taught History, Government and Social Studies. He also served as
Norfolk Catholic's Assistant Football and Track Coach, Head Swim Coach and,
later, as its Head Football Coach and Athletic Director. He moved to Granby
High School in 1997, where he taught, coached the swim team and assisted
with their football program. He moved to Maury High School in 1998 to become
its Athletic Director. Upon his death, he was teaching History, Government
and Social Studies at Maury and serving as its Head Swim Coach.
John was a member of Sacred Heart Catholic Church and its Parish Council and
the Old Dominion University Alumni Association. He was a former member of
the Knights of Columbus and the Lions Club. He was a member and former
Sportsman of the Year of the Norfolk Sports Club.
Survivors include Marilou O'Hara, his loving wife of 27 years; his daughter,
Virginia Katherine O'Hara of Austin, Texas; his son, Joseph John O'Hara II
of Norfolk; his brothers, Stephen C. O'Hara of Minneapolis, Minn., W. Bryan
O'Hara of Ft. Worth, Texas, and Thomas K. O'Hara of Annapolis, Md.; and many
nieces and nephews.
The Mass of the Resurrection will be held 10 a.m. Friday, Sept. 12, in
Sacred Heart Catholic Church by Msgr. William Pitt. Burial will be in St.
Mary's Cemetery. A Christian Wake Service will be held 7 p.m. Thursday in
the church, followed by a visitation until 9 p.m.
Memorial donations may be made to the Old Dominion University Athletic
Association or to the Sweetie Howlett Memorial Tournament, 229 W. Bute St.,
Suite 630, Norfolk, Va. 23510. This tournament is being renamed the Sweetie
Howlett/John O'Hara Memorial Tournament in John's honor.
Online condolences may be sent to the family at
hdoliver.com. View and post
condolences on our online guestbook at
dailypress.com/guestbooks.
Published in the Daily Press
on 9/8/2008.
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Sunday, September 07, 2008
My simple words cannot capture the depth, strength, kindness and
wisdom of the this special man. Many have been blessed to know Coach
O' as a teacher, a coach, a friend; we will all cherish the lessons
and the memories, forever. All our love to you and the kids, Marilou.
—Anya
& Rudie Simpson,
Norfolk,
Virginia
Monday, September 08, 2008
Steve, Bryan and Tommy,
I was shocked to hear of John's passing. Although it has been many
years since I last saw him, I would think of him often and the fun
times at the Yacht Club. I also remember all the fun times at the
O'Hara house - it was just like a second home always full of laughter.
All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Much love,
Sherri Link Lovell
—Sherri
Link-Lovell,
Newport
News,
Virginia
Monday, September 08, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with
you at this time of sorrow.
—Emily
Jones,
Chesapeake
Monday, September 08, 2008
Am at a loss for words. John was a great childhood friend . His
memory will live on.
—Sam
Allaun and family,
Williamsburg,
Virginia
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Monday, September 08, 2008
Marilou- Our deepest sympathy at the loss of such a wonderful man.
John was very special to my brother, Chris, who passed away in 2006. I
know that he is up in heaven guiding him once again. Our prayers are
with you and your family.
—Cindee
RiegodeDios-Keaton,
Tampa,
Florida
Monday, September 08, 2008
My sincere condolences to the O'Hara family. I will always
remember and thank Coach O'Hara for his integrity and passion.
Louis Moore
NCHS Class of 1984
—Louis
Moore,
Sugar Land,
Texas
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Monday, September 08, 2008
To the O'Hara family - my deepest sympathies on the loss of John. He
was a very special person to so many; especially his former Norfolk
Catholic High students - my thoughts are with you.
Carole Grissom Cowling
—Carole
Cowling,
Virginia Beach,
Virginia
Monday,
September 08, 2008
To the O'Hara family- my
deepest sympathies on the loss of "COACH-O" He will be missed but
never forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
V/R,
Donald McMillian
NCHS class of 1979
—Donald
McMillian,
Chesapeake,
Virginia
Monday,
September 08, 2008
My condolences to the
O'Hara family...Coach O was always passionate about impressing upon us
all, that giving your best...is being the best!...and I've remembered
this since my high school days! God bless the Ironman!
—Robert
Wyda NCHS class of 78,
Norfolk,
Virginia
Monday, September 08, 2008
I was shocked and
deeply saddened this morning when I saw in the paper where John
had died. I am at a loss for words...my deepest sympathy to all
the family. I have fond memories of my visits to Joe and Gin's
home and all the good times with the O'Hara family back in the
70's. My deepest sympathy to you Bryan, Tommy and Steve with the
loss of you brother and to Marilou, Joseph and Virginia with the
loss of your husband and father. You all are in my thoughts and
prayers during these difficult days for your family.
—Elaine
Campbell,
Newport News,
Virginia
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Monday,
September 08, 2008
To The O'Hara Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time. He was a
great person, and had a tremendous love for what he did!! He will
be missed greatly!!!
—Amy
and Michael Carlyle,
Wake Forest,
North Carolina
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Monday,
September 08, 2008
O'Hara Family;
Thirty nine years ago I had the privilege of swimming for John at the
Warwick Yacht Club. New to the area, I did not know John had a glass
eye. When he took it out and held it up for all of us to see, it was
quite a shock! He inspired us to do our best and overcome obstacles
that got in our way. I will always remember that summer. My thoughts
and prayers are with you during this time.
—Chuck
Stern,
Newport News,
Virginia
Monday,
September 08, 2008
To Marilou, Virginia and
Joey,
We're so sorry to hear of your sudden loss. It's a sad, sad day at ODU,
Catholic High, Maury and Granby. Ken had Coach O'Hara as a teacher and
Senior advisor at NCHS. Our daughter, Jessica, knew him as a teacher
at Maury. He was well liked by all who knew him and will be sorely
missed. Our prayers are with you.
—Mary
and Kenny Turner,
Norfolk,
Virginia
Monday, September 08, 2008
Marilou and Family
You and your family are in our prayers. What a fine man he was. I
had the privilege of having him for my advisor while at NCHS.
Always there for his students and players without fail. He will
surely be missed. Rest in Peace, Coach O.
Michelle Carmody Wood '81
—Michelle
Wood,
Norfolk,
Virginia
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Monday, September 08, 2008
Coach O'Hara was one of
those rare individuals who truly lived in accordance with his
convictions... clearly evident in everything he did and said. A
role model of the highest caliber to thousands of us over the
years, his NCHS family is blessed to have known him.
Our deepest condolences.
—John
Pitchford Family,
Powder Springs,
Georgia
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Monday, September 08, 2008
To Marilou and Family:
In the 36 Years which I knew Coach "O", no one was ever more
committed to the values and traditions, of not just the athlete,
but of the "whole person". He touched the lives of everyone he
came in contact with, and the legacy he leaves lives on forever.
God Bless John!
—Bob
Veith,
Va. Beach,
Virginia
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Monday, September 08, 2008
To the O'Hara family, I
am sorry for your loss, Coach will be a man that everybody's life
he touched will never forget...
—Meg
Baker (Brooks),
Norfolk,
Virginia
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Monday, September 08, 2008
Marilou, my deepest
sympathy to you and your family. Coach "O" was a great man. He
touched the lives of thousands of people. I am happy to be counted
as one of them. Unfortunately, I will be unable to attend services
as I will be in India. Please know that my thoughts and prayers
are with you and Coach O.
John V. Moore NCHS 81
—John
Moore,
Norfolk,
Virginia
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Monday,
September 08, 2008
Our prayers and condolences
to the entire O'Hara family. Coach O'Hara was a great teacher and
mentor. His memory has and will continue forever. Thanks, Coach .
Martin Champaco NCHS 75
—Martin
Champaco,
Chesapeake,
Virginia
Monday, September 08, 2008
A man greatly missed
upon whose lips you once kissed.
Strength and Integrity
have now gone to God's heavenly city.
May your tears be wiped
by God's own hand.
As he leads your loved one
to the promised land.
Coach O'Hara was always a big name around my house growing up as
my older brother swam and played football under him at NCHS
between 88-90. He seemed gruff but when I had him as a homeroom
teacher in 96 at CHS I learned that most of it was a show and that
he had a warm heart underneath. He always made people believe that
they could be better than they were and to strive to be the best.
His legacy will always be remembered fondly by those who knew him.
God Bless the O'Hara family in this time and Coach "O" himself.
—Marianne
Bowman (Hughes),
Norfolk,
Virginia
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Tuesday, September 09, 2008
When I think back to my
high school years .... memories of Mr. O'Hara's history class at
Norfolk Catholic bring a smile to my face! He was passionate. He
was kind. He was dedicated. He loved to teach and he was excellent
at it.
May you feel God's love and comfort during this difficult time. I
will be covering your family in prayer!
Sending prayers and love.
—Christine
Whitmore Rucker,
North Augusta,
South Carolina
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Tuesday, September 09, 2008
To the O'Hara family,
my heart and prayers go out to you all during this difficult time.
Coach O was a dear friend to all of us, and a man who will
certainly never be replaced. His love, support, and guidance will
live on forever in the many young lives he touched. There was
nothing he wouldn't do for his student-athletes, and his door was
always open. He was an extremely loyal and visible fan to all of
us in the Maury sports family. I can still see him walking around
the pool barefoot, or wearing his eyepatch and referee shirt at
the ODU basketball games. No one has made an impact on sports, and
the lives of young athletes in this area, quite like Coach O.
Coach O, thank you for everything! Our faith tells us that you are
now in a better place. We are all so fortunate to have had you as
our coach, and as our friend. You will be greatly missed.
-Johnny V
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
—John
Vellines Jr. (MHS 02'),
Norfolk,
Virginia
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Tuesday,
September 09, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are
with the O' Hara Family. May your memories bring you comfort knowing
John is at peace. God is holding him in his hands now. Now John can
watch over us, just like he did when he was at Catholic. He was a
great person and teacher. He will be missed.
—Anne
Giles,
Norfolk,
Virginia
Tuesday, September 09, 2008
Dear Marilou and
family,
Cadillac and I are so sad to hear about the loss of Coach O'Hara.
We fondly remember how you and he welcomed us into the Maury
family with open arms. We just loved his zest for life and
willingness to help anyone in need. We hope you take comfort in
the many wonderful years you had together. We are keeping you
close in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God
bless you.
Bonita Harris and family
—Bonita
Harris,
Chesapeake,
Virginia
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Wednesday, September 10, 2008
My deepest sympathies
to John's family and loved ones. John was a man for all seasons,
following his calling as a teacher in whatever capacity he was
needed; John's heart knew no bounds. I was privileged to know him
and work with him.
Bill Neutz
Pt Pleasant Beach, NJ
—Bill
Neutz,
Pt Pleasant Beach
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Wednesday,
September 10, 2008
Dear O'Hara Family,
Coach O always had a good word and kept us in line at NCHS. I last saw
him at a HS reunion 10 years ago and we shared memories that made us
smile and laugh. I teach at home and have used my World History skills
given by Coach many times. May you be comforted by God who knows your
hearts' needs at this time.
Maura (Gaskin) Heiss NCHS '78 Milwaukee, WI
—Maura
Heiss,
Milwaukee,
Wisconsin
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
As a teacher/coach at
NCHS I had the chance to enjoy his wit, and his love of life.
Freshman were scared of him, upper classmen thought of him as a
second dad. For those that knew him he was truly a Gentle-Man.
—Lou
Cappi,
Beaumont,
Texas
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Thursday, September 11, 2008
Dear O'Hara Family,
My deepest sympathies on the loss of John. My thoughts and prayers
are with you. I have so many fond memories of him, Freshman
History, swim meets, visits to his parents and homeroom. He will
always be in my heart.
Anne Bisese
NCHS Class of '75
—Anne
Bisese,
Mebane,
North Carolina
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Thursday, September 11, 2008
I haven't seen "Mr.
O'Hara" in many years and he probably wouldn't have remembered me,
but I was a sad little girl who lost her mom at the tender age of
9. I had a brother one year older and two years younger. Mr.
O'Hara was kind to us and taught us to swim and made us smile. We
were members of the Warwick Yacht club back then (late 60's and
through the 70's). My dad was working and grieving and the Yacht
club was our haven. Mr. O'Hara helped us through that time, even
included us in swim meets and encouraged us, all the while knowing
we were not champion swimmers. We were truly blessed by his
presence.
—Christina
(Bieni) Thomas,
Virginia Beach,
Virginia
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Thursday, September 11, 2008
As a member of the NCHS
class of ’75 I had the honor and privilege of being a member of
his first class for his teaching career. He was a teacher, a
coach, a mentor and a friend. What a blessing he was to so many as
he challenged us all to be better, face the good and the bad
handed us and to make a positive difference in someone else’s
life.
What a great soul John O’Hara is.
My prayers are with the O’Hara family.
With love,
Sherry (Wyatt) Hill
—Sherry
Hill,
Norfolk,
Virginia
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Thursday, September 11, 2008
John has been my
teacher, coach, friend and colleague. He was the impetus that
propelled me to my first job as a teacher and coach. Now 25 years
later, I'm still in education and thanks to John I am the man I am
today. I owe you big time. My prayers go out to Marilou and the
family. God Bless.
—Gene
Jones,
Norfolk,
Virginia
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Our sincerest sympathies are
extended to John's family, friends, and former students at this difficult time.

Y'all take good care of each
other! TYPHOONS FOREVER! We'll
Always Have
Buckroe!
Love to all, Carol
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Love Is This?
Words by
Alexander Means
Music by William Walker, 1835
What wondrous love is this, O my
soul, O my soul!
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What wondrous love is this that caused the Lord of bliss
To bear the dreadful curse for my soul, for my soul,
To bear the dreadful curse for my soul.
When I was sinking down, sinking down, sinking down,
When I was sinking down, sinking down,
When I was sinking down beneath God’s righteous frown,
Christ laid aside His crown for my soul, for my soul,
Christ laid aside His crown for my soul.
To God and to the Lamb, I will sing, I will sing;
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To God and to the Lamb Who is the great 'I Am';
While millions join the theme, I will sing, I will sing;
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And when from death I’m free, I’ll sing on, I’ll sing on;
And when from death I’m free, I’ll sing on.
And when from death I’m free, I’ll sing and joyful be;
And through eternity, I’ll sing on, I’ll sing on;
And through eternity, I’ll sing on.

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Wondrous Love Is This?"
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