08/08/08 - NNHS Newsletter
“And then, when I started to school, I found out I couldn't talk.”
“And then, when I started to school, I found out I couldn't talk.”
Dear Friends and Schoolmates,
Today bears the coolest date you'll write all year long - 08/08/08! And it's also Mel's birthday!
BONUS #1 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XGLcNR1sWIc - Mel Tillis Whataburger Commercials
BONUS #2 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U7XPh481E9A - "Ruby, Don't Take Your Love to Town" was a huge hit for Kenny Rogers, but it was written by Country Music Hall Of Fame Superstar Mel Tillis. Here Mel sings three of his own compositions, "Ruby", "Detroit City", and I Wanna Go Home" live at a show in Branson, MO.
BIRTHDAYS - TODAY AND UPCOMING:
Happy Birthday today to our Two-Fer: Virginia Deuell DeBerry ('46) AND Kathy Presgraves Whitt ('71) of VA!
Happy Birthday this week to:
12 - Dave Arnold ('65) of VA AND Linwood Wright ('65) of VA;
14 - Tommie Mouser ('60) of VA AND My Grandson, Joseph Harty of OR!
Many Happy Returns, One and All!
From Ron Miller ('59) of NC - 08/07/08 - "Smart or Stoopid?":
Here's a fun test someone sent me. Be prepared however -- you only have 3 or 4 seconds to answer each question.
YOWZERS!!! I only scored 26 out of 30, but it said that the average score is 18.2, and that made me "42.9% smarter than average". I don't like to rush; it makes me nervous. Maybe I'll try taking it again. NAH!!!!!
From Joyce Lawrence Cahoon ('65) of VA - 08/07/08 - "Chocolate Sings":
We all need a little chocolate each day!
One day I had a date for lunch with friends. Mae, a little old "blue hair" about 80 years old, came along with them---all in all, a pleasant bunch. When the menus were presented, we ordered salads, sandwiches, and soups, except for Mae who said, "Ice Cream, please. Two scoops, chocolate."
I wasn't sure my ears heard right, and the others were aghast.
"Along with heated apple pie," Mae added, completely unabashed.
We tried to act quite nonchalant, as if people did this all the time.
But when our orders were brought out, I didn't enjoy mine.
I couldn't take my eyes off Mae as her pie a-la-mode went down.
The other ladies showed dismay. They ate their lunches silently and frowned.
The next time I went out to eat, I called and invited Mae.
I lunched on white meat tuna. She ordered a parfait.
I smiled. She asked if she amused me.
I answered, "Yes, you do, but also you confuse me.
How come you order rich desserts, while I feel I must be sensible?
She laughed and said, with wanton mirth, "I'm tasting all that is Possible.
I try to eat the food I need, and do the things I should.
But life's so short, my friend, I hate missing out on something good.
This year I realized how old I was. (She grinned) I haven't been this old before."
"So, before I die, I've got to try those things that for years I had ignored.
I haven't smelled all the flowers yet. There are too many books I haven't read.
There's more fudge sundaes to wolf down and kites to be flown overhead.
There are many malls I haven't shopped. I've not laughed at all the jokes.
I've missed a lot of Broadway hits and potato chips and cokes.
I want to wade again in water and feel ocean spray on my face.
I want to sit in a country church once more and thank God for His grace.
I want peanut butter every day spread on my morning toast.
I want un-timed long distance calls to the folks I love the most.
I haven't cried at all the movies yet, or walked in the morning rain.
I need to feel wind in my hair. I want to fall in love again.
So, if I choose to have dessert, instead of having dinner,
Then should I die before night fall, I'd say I died a winner,
because I missed out on nothing. I filled my heart's desire.
I had that final chocolate mousse before my life expired."
With that, I called the waitress over. "I've changed my mind, " I said.
"I want what she is having, only add some more whipped cream!"
This is my gift to you - We need an annual Friends Day!
..... Be mindful that happiness isn't based on possessions, power, or prestige, but on relationships with people we love and respect. Remember that while money talks, "CHOCOLATE SINGS"!
AMEN! Thanks, Joyce!
From the Head Flagtwirler of 1965, Janice McCain Rose of VA - 08/07/08 - "RE: 08/06/08 - Lucille Ball's 97th Birthday":
Hi Carol....just a little memory from the Apple Blossom Festival Parade in 1964...and Lucille Ball. She was the Grand Marshall...and I remember as we passed the reviewing stand seeing her ....and the shock!!!! I thought her hair was red....but on this day it looked PINK!!!!! Do you remember seeing her????????
Thanks, Janice! Well, I remember that Lucy was the Grand Marshall that year. I even remember your talking about her pink hair way back then!
But it's a little remembered fact that I was forced to drop out of band just before Winchester that year because of medical reasons. I had (and of course, still have) narcolepsy, and at that time the struggles I was having with it were interfering dreadfully with those early morning rehearsals. It broke my heart at the time - and still does, really.
I saw Mr. Wilson a couple of years later - it must have been in the summer of '67 - and we spoke of that sad time again. With tears in his eyes and mine, he told me had I only explained the situation, we could have made adjustments and I could have remained in band. That experience was a pivotal moment for me. While I am more close-mouthed now about others' privacy, I'm far less apt now to remain silent about things that disturb me or might affect my future.....
From Julie Benton, daughter of Julius Benton ('58) and Renee Helterbran Benton ('59) of VA - 08/07/08 - "The Benton Bunch needs your support!":
** Please click on the link at the bottom of this email to access my personal webpage. You will learn more about my Dad and why the Memory Walk is so important to me. **
It is only 6 weeks until this year's Alzheimer's Association Memory Walk. I proudly walk to honor my Dad, Julius Benton, who battles Pick's disease.
I know that times are tough this year and we are all pinching pennies. I continue to ask for your support to help those who cannot help themselves anymore. People who used to be just like you, working for a living, raising a family and planning for the future.
I walk for my Dad because he can no longer walk. I speak for my Dad because he can no longer speak. I hope that you will consider donating to the Alzheimer's Association this year in honor of my Dad or someone you love. There is no donation too small as each dollar means so much. Thank you!
Click here to visit my personal web page and help me in my efforts to support Alzheimer's Association Greater Richmond Chapter:
Thank you so much, Julie (and Renee)! We wish you and your family much success in your efforts towards this worthy cause!
From Bill Hobbs ('66) of Northern VA - 08/07/08 - "Proper English?":
At a meeting, why does a topic come UP?
Why do we speak UP,
and why are the
election and why is it UP to the
write UP a
report? We call UP
our friends and we use it to
brighten UP a
room, polish UP the
warm UP the
leftovers and clean UP the
kitchen. We lock UP the
house and some guys
fix UP the
GIGGLES! Thanks, Bill!
From Christine Wilson Starkman ('68) of CA - 08/07/08 - "Check out STING LYRICS - Fields Of Gold":
Riffing on the "fields" theme:
What beautiful words! Thanks so much, Chris!I thought you might enjoy this video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UppX6vP3c4g - Sting - Fields Of Gold, 1993
From Joyce Lawrence Cahoon ('65) of VA - 08/05/08 - "We've All Been There!!! " (#3 in a series of 15):
We've All Been There!!!
GIGGLES! Thanks, Joyce!
PRAYER ROLL (arranged alphabetically, but not necessarily complete):
Jerry Allen ('65) of VA -
update of 07/25/08 -
update of 07/28/08 -
"Jerry's HOME!!! He is ... feeling much better. He will still have to tackle
some health issues, but we are getting there!"
2.Julius Benton ('58) of VA - diagnosed years ago with Pick's Disease; update of 07/18/08 - SEE: 07/19/08
3. Connie Bloxom Thompson ('66) of MD - multiple heath and financial issues; needing cataract surgery to prevent inevitable blindness ASAP;update of 03/11/08: "SO FAR, 1/2 FUNDS FOR 1 EYE PROCEDURE"; update of 03/28/08: re-hospitalized; $1475.00 received so far; still short of $2000.00 goal; update of 04/28/08 - SEE: 04/28/08; update of 06/23/08 - surgery on right eye - 07/01/08; surgery on left eye to follow several weeks later as financial goals are met
2237 Hunter Chase
Bel Air, MD 21015
4. Betty Brockwell McClure ('58) of VA - broken hip - early this year; still recovering and in pain; update of 06/17/08 - SEE: 06/18/08
5.Clyde Bryant ('58) of PA - heart replacement surgery - 12/13/07
6. Emily (daughter of My Niece Shari) of VA - advancing scoliosis; surgery 03/11/08; update of 03/12/08: surgery went well, running slight fever; update of 03/18/08: had some ups and lows, but is home again; update of 04/14/08 - still in pain, running a fever; update of 04/18/08 - SEE: 04/18/08; update of 05/05/08 - "finally getting better. Her hamstring stretching is painful, but making a big difference. She has years of physical therapy ahead of her, but is doing soo much better"; update of 05/13/08 - has had a setback; going to see the surgeon in Richmond on 05/15/08; update of 06/15/08 - SEE: 06/17/08
7. Dale Chestnut (Nakina HS, NC - '54) of VA suffered heart attack on 07/25/08, fell on sidewalk during attack, breaking his nose and cheekbone and losing a tooth; is in critical condition in Mary Immaculate ICU; update of 08/04/08 - SEE ABOVE
8. Carol Cook Campbell ('62) of VA - update of 07/26/08 - heart catheter; at home now and doing fine
9. My Niece, Shari, of VA - hospitalized 07/19/08
10. Jimmy DeBerry ('64) of VA - stroke on 06/17/08; update of 06/25/08 - SEE: 06/26/08; update of 07/02/08 - SEE: 07/03/08; update of 07/26/08 - "went home July 10th and is doing GREAT; walking each night, having therapy a few times a week and progressing very well"
11.Jamey Douglas Bacon ('66) of VA - knee surgery with complications on 07/01/08 - update of 07/10/08 - SEE: 07/12/08; update of 07/20/08 - SEE: 07/21/08
12. My second granddaughter,Rachel Harty of IL - broke her ankle/leg in 3 places on 05/17/08; clean breaks, no surgery required, but located in a tricky place for a growing girl, so proper healing is essential; update of 05/30/08 - "healing nicely. They put her in a cast below the knee. She still can't put any weight on it for 2 more weeks. Then she will be in a walking cast for 3 weeks after that"; update of 06/14/08 - Her leg is healing much faster than the doctor had expected. She is in a waterproof walking cast now for 3 weeks, then this cast will come off and she will have physical therapy; update of 07/06/08: SEE: 07/07/08; update of 07/27/08 - "has completed her physical therapy, and is now totally healed!"; update of 07/29/08 - SEE ABOVE
13. Pat Floyd Pride ('62) of VA - update of 07/26/08 - hip surgery - at home now and doing fine
14. Bitsy Heath ('57) of VA - 07/02/08 - abdominal aneurysm requiring surgery; also having other issues with breathing and pulmonary output; SEE: 07/03/08
16. Bobby Hedrick ('58) of VA - recently diagnosed with pancreatic cancer; update of 03/22/08: "doing very well, no pain, just some soreness"; update of 05/10/08: "continues to do well since the surgery for pancreatic cancer and will now begin the follow-up treatment to be decided upon following the consultation and evaluation at MD Anderson (Houston).
17. Charley Mugler of VA - suffered massive on 07/20/08
18. Pam Pennington Cherry ('58) of VA - congestive heart failure; cardiac ablation procedure - 02/06/08; second surgery on 02/20/08 for aneurysm; update of 03/17/08 - still experiencing difficulty with heart racing, breathing and pressure in her chest; pray that cardiac ablation procedure will not have to be repeated, and that Pam can learn to REST!; update of 05/04/08 - "in about eight months she will indeed have to have the ablation process repeated."
19. Marsha Rice ('62) of VA - update of 07/26/08 - knee surgery - at home now and doing fine
20. Tommy Scott ('61) of VA - update of 04/14/08 - "at home recuperating"; update of 05/22/08 - "still at home recuperating"; update of 06/09/08 - "still at home recovering. I am sure they would love receiving cards/notes from NNHS friends."
22. Jim Wilson ('58) of VA recovering from prostate surgery on 06/02/08
23. All of Us
DATES TO REMEMBER:
1. Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, September 26 - 28, 2008 -NNHS CLASS OF 1968:
http://www.nnhs65.00freehost.com/reunion-class-of-1968.html - 03/31/08
2. Saturday, September 27, 2008 -EVERYONE:
Evelyn Fryer Fish's Birthday Party for All of Us
3. Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, October 17 - 19, 2008- NNHS CLASS OF 1963 - AND PERHAPS OTHERS:
http://www.nnhs65.00freehost.com/reunion-class-of-1963.html - 07/23/08
Y'all take care of each other! TYPHOONS FOREVER! We'll Always Have Buckroe!
Love to all, Carol
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or just mail it to my home. Thanks!
Ruby, Don't Take Your Love to Town
- Written by Mel Tillis, 1967
(Kenny Rogers and the First Edition, 1969)
You've painted up your lips
And rolled and curled your tinted hair
Ruby are you contemplating
Going out somewhere
The shadow on the wall
Tells me the sun is going down
Don't take your love to town
It wasn't me
That started that old crazy Asian war
But I was proud to go
And do my patriotic chore
And yes, it's true that
I'm not the man I used to be
Oh, Ruby, I still need some company
Its hard to love a man
Whose legs are bent and paralyzed
And the wants and the needs of a woman your age
Ruby, I realize,
But it won't be long I've heard them say until I not around
Don't take your love to town
She's leaving now cause
I just heard the slamming of the door
The way I know I've heard it slam
100 times before
And if I could move I'd get my gun
And put her in the ground
Don't take your love to town
Oh, Ruby, for God's sake, turn around
"Ruby, Don't Take Your Love to Town" midi courtesy of http://www.angelfire.com/mo/NeverKnowWhat/MidiWorld.html - 08/08/08
"Ruby, Don't Take Your Love to
Town" lyrics courtesy
of http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Ruby-Don't-Take-Your-Love-To-Town-lyrics-Kenny-Rogers/66BA9969167C724748256A16002F5136 - 08/08/08
First Image of Mel Tillis courtesy of http://www.jamd.com/search?assettype=g&assetid=3244087&text=Mel+Tillis - 08/08/08
Second Image of Mel Tillis courtesy of http://www.opry.com/MeetTheOpry/Members.aspx?id=4901 - 08/08/08
Guitar Divider Line clip art courtesy of - well, I don't know, but it's been in my files since 02/01/05
Birthday Cake clip art courtesy of
Sarah Puckett Kressaty ('65) of
VA - 08/31/05
Thanks, Sarah Sugah!
Air Force Seal clip art courtesy of http://www1.va.gov/opa/feature/celebrate/milsongs.htm - 07/07/06
Army Seal clip art courtesy of
Al Farber ('64) of GA - 05/24/06
Navy Seal clip art courtesy ofhttp://www.onemileup.com/miniSeals.asp- 05/29/06
Marine Corps Seal clip art
courtesy of the late
Herbert Hice of MI
- one of my
Famous Marines who served in the South
Pacific during WWII.
Thanks again, Herbie!
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